Sunday, April 25, 2010

[Q]uestions [C]osmo

being that my life until this point has been a major failure in the relationship department, as corny as it is, i LOVE reading the like "relationship" articles in cosmo, & essence & all those types of mags.. anywho, i was reading the MAY2010 cosmo last night & one of the articles was entitled "100 relationship questions answered in 20 words or less" , it's a must read for all you chicas out there but just to highlight here were the 10 questions i felt the most ppl could relate with:

1. why does he always text back after i call him?
men's goal is "fast", so to them it's the most direct way to stay in touch with you.
2. he parties too much for me. keep or ditch him?
tell him you're into more lowkey nights. if he doesnt mellow out, hes not the guy for you.
3. can friends with benefits work?
yeah, but once one person develops feelings - and it does happen - you must either date or cut ties.
4. he is moody but wont tell me whatsup.. how do i get him to spill?
say "you seem upset. im here to listen" he'll be more likely to come around on his own terms.
5. do guys kiss & tell?
men bond by doing stuff, not by talking.
6. what does it really mean when he says i need some space?
"i want to break up but i'm too chicken to tell you"
7. he says he's not ready for a relationship. will he change his mind?
probably not.
8. he gave me his # when should i call?
after 48 hours, any later & its a ploy, any earlier & it's desperate.
9. should we really never go to bed angry?
no it's better to cool off with sleep than hash it out when youre angry
10. is it true you should marry your bestfriend?
no.